Friday, 5 March 2010

Blog Swap - Introducing Kelly from A place of my own

Hi Guys, Kelly and I have swapped homes for the day, I have posted over at her place today and she mine.  I have posted a great idea for Mothers day, so do pop on over and read it.  Also Kelly's blog is a great read in itself, so I urge you to have a good read, if you don't already. 

Hi, I am Kelly from A place of my own and I have been allowed into the Madhouse for a day. It's really rather nice here, I promise to wipe my feet and tidy up after myself. I have written a little something to share with you all, I hope you enjoy it:

I Tweet, do you?

I cannot remember how it started, why I started or even how I found out about it. Which would have me worried about the state of my memory but I do know that I was pregnant at the time so that makes perfect sense. I have just looked and my first tweet was on 11th February 2009, and I tweeted:

Eating polos and wondering if anyone would notice if she went home.

Thankfully, within a day or so I stopped talking about myself in the third person and I hope that my tweets became slightly more interesting. Or perhaps a little more bizarre. Or a mix of both. At the start I followed a lot of celebrities, but over the months I have culled them out, preferring real people with real lives who will have conversations with me.

In the beginning Twitter was fun, a way to connect with some new and interesting people. It was like Facebook but just the interesting status bit. It linked in with blogging, something that I had been doing for years. It came into its own when I finished work in May to go on maternity leave. I cannot say that I miss work, but I do miss the social aspect of working in a busy office. I miss the in jokes and the mickey taking. I miss sharing anecdotes about my weekend and moaning about someone or something that has upset me. I might not be able to do it face to face anymore, but whenever I want some company, a chat, a laugh it is all there, streaming into my home. I can dip in and dip out when I want to. Or I can switch it all off for a day and enjoy the quiet.

It has other benefits as well. Those night feeds with a newborn were made more bearable as I connected with others doing exactly the same thing. Usually any time of day, and most of the night I have people on hand to offer advice, suggestions, to check information and to keep me sane. People who let me know that I am not alone, that reassure me that I am doing well, that sympathise when I am having a bad day, who send virtual (((hugs))). There is always someone there willing to share in my excitement when Piran hits a new milestone, or if I just feel like sharing a picture of him looking cute.

It seems strange that I have been tweeting for over a year. Some days I wonder how long it will last, will I still be doing it in another year, two, five? Will something come along to replace it? Will everyone suddenly realise that they have better things to do? I really hope not.

So, do you tweet? I am @Kellyfairy, and I would love it if you would introduce yourself and say hello. I promise to share some cute baby photos.

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hi Kelly !
No - tweeting & Facebook are not fo me - I spend so much time blogging I think life as I know it would stop all together if I tweeted too !!!
My 17 year old does facebook. I was always the very last to change to what's new & I still find it an odd thing to be talking to strangers, but friedships are built up through blogging which can be very rewarding & comforting. So I for one shall stick to Blogging ! xx
I do , do twitter occasionally, I tend to forget about it though! I am on facebook though, will you be my friend? Ha ha! Thanks for this post, really great ! Suzie xxx
1 reply · active 786 weeks ago
I used to use Facebook so much but now I probably go on once a week. I like to share photos that way, but that is about it.
No, I don't do Twitter either - I'm with Penny, I think absolutely nothing would get done if I did Twitter as well as blog. I find blogging addictive enough!
1 reply · active 786 weeks ago
It can be terribly addictive, I have to be very strict with myself!
I have just started to use Twitter lately, it's much easier to use when you have an application like Tweetdeck.

I'm still learning and slowly making some new friends.....

See you on there x
1 reply · active 786 weeks ago
I must admit I find using Twitter from my phone better than the laptop. Quick and easy.
We're big on tweeting in this house. It's great for connecting with people beyond the cope of your blogs and keeps me sane with adult conversation all day long.
1 reply · active 786 weeks ago
I definitely love the fact that when I am home with my 7 month old there is someone there who can talk!
I love twitter, I love the fact that you can just browse in the background if you're not feeling too talkative or jump right in there.
1 reply · active 786 weeks ago
Exactly, sometimes I am happy to lurk, just reading other people's conversations.
Hi - I'm with some of the others in that I find blogging takes up enough of my time that I think I would have big problems with unfed family living in a tip if I twittered too! Nice to meet you though!
1 reply · active 786 weeks ago
Nice to meet you too. I am sure that as my son gets more active, my tweeting will reduce!
I don't know where i'd be without Twitter to be honest, it's sometimes my only proper contact with the outside world.
1 reply · active 786 weeks ago
I have enough trouble and I live on an estate on the outskirts of a big village. It must mean so much to you living where you do. I like that you are always there for the early morning tweets - there are some regular faces at that time of day.
i still cant decide whether we should tweet in third person or not? Tend to think not but occasionally will fall into old habits.

Have been trying to explain the attraction of twitter to a friend but its hard to explain the pull.

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