Showing posts with label childhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label childhood. Show all posts

Tuesday, 1 June 2010

A Wonderful Bank Holiday Monday spent in the Kitchen and Garden


I think the sun forgot our little park of the North East today.


So we have spent the day baking.


Maxi did all the weighing and measuring


Mini did most of the stirring and tasting


We have had a lot of fun and made lots of cakes

Oat and raisin cooks and mince pies (mini's favorites)


Many Muffins, sweet mincemeat and St Stephens Day Muffins, in addition to some fairy cakes.


Whilst I was busy in the kitchen, MadDad tended the garden, including planting out the courgettes and cucumbers.


Everything is looking great and really coming along.

He also washed and cleaned the cars, ready for the trip we are taking today to Emma Bridgewater's Factory to celebrate their 25th Anniversary with them. We are very excited and I am sure will have loads to show and tell you.



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Thursday, 27 May 2010

Writing Workshop - Hues of Orange

We had a caravan when I was growing up.  No, not one of those wonderful static caravans, no we had a box on wheels, so summers were spent setting off in the dead of the night to the English Riviera. 

Well before seat belts became compulsory, my parents would pack the cool box, the pillows and the duvets to make the back seat in to a makeshift bed for my younger brother and me and once we were asleep they would gently lift us to the car and start our adventure.

Often the we woke to the sound of cars thundering by, as my parents had a cup of tea from the thermos flask in a lay by before setting off again on what seemed like a never ending journey to the other end of the country.  A place where the sun shone and was much warmer than our little patch of the North East.  

Once we arrived at our destination we were dispatched to the park on the site whilst the van was prepared for that night, only returning when our stomachs started rumbling.  Left to make friends and leave the parents alone, so that they could open up the wine and get the windbreak pitched.
I remember these trips fondly.  Of baths in buckets and cold showers.  Of share toilet blocks and running in the dark and cold for a pee in the middle of the night.  I look back on the endless days playing swingball with my dad and my mum managing to cook a Sunday roast in a caravan oven and I want to repeat them with my children.

I grew up with regular visits to the English seaside.  Where you needed to have a windbreak and a great big towel for once we came out of the water.  I have memories of being in the sea in a blow up dinghy connected to my dads arm by a long piece of rope, of having the freedom to rock pool and build sandcastles.  The great big moats filling up as the tide came in.

The Breakfasts were always cooked by Dad and we would have sausages, bacon and eggs fresh from the closest farm.  We never had to have cereal like at home.  Holidays were special.  A break from the norm, something to be cherished. e feeling of sand between by toes and often between my teeth too.  

I used to hate the holiday coming to an end, I used to dread the packing up.  I loved spending time with my dad and this meant that he would be returning to work.  I was a real daddy's girl and we would be inseparable for most of the holiday.
We would always stop at a farm and pick up bags of plums and other fruit before making the long journey home, once home we would make jam or "sunshine in a jar" as it became known to me as a reminder of those heady days of high summer.

Those care free, heady days of the 70's, where everything seemed to be orange or brown or it is in my memory, but I wonder how much of that is due to the orange hue that the photographs have taken over time.

I loved the summer, I still do.

This was written for the writing workshop at Sleep is for the weak and I chose prompt 1. Summer



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Tuesday, 10 November 2009

Childhood innocence lost or a mum behind the times

A tweet and a blog post by Sandy Calico of Baby Baby Fame about shag bands today really got me enraged and started me thinking - not a good thing.

I read about these horrendous things a while back, but thought that they hadn't reached the UK yet and I have to say they really upset me, there is a post in The Times about them.  I know that we can not shield our children from sexulisation, but we can hold it back for as long as possible.

I have long been a mum who doesn't like slogan tshirts and tops, especially ones that sexualise children or even say things like "here comes trouble".  Now my boys are not angels, but I dont want them wearing a top letting people know that they are little monkeys  or here comes trouble and also would hate to see it becoming a self fulfilling prophesy.


Why would you want to put a child in a tshirt stying that there job is to create mayhem, or lock up your daughters, or god forbid a girl in a playboy tshirt.  They are not clever and they are not funny.

But it often seems that I am in the minority these days and I am seeing more and more children wearing these terrible tops. I have even seen ones that say "I have done F*** all today", "They Beat Me", "ASBO" and "Botch job" what message is this passing to our children? 

Now I will admit that I am an older mum and that my idea of a funky tea shirt is one with bungle from rainbow on it and the thankful thing is the the mini's wont wear anything that they can not read.

I Think that children should be children for as long as possible and it is our jobs as parents to protect, shield and discuss these things with our children when necessary.  We should dress out children like children, leave the knee high boots, spaghetti straps and mini adult clothes for the older children, what is wrong with the more traditional wear.  Well for one thing the shops which sock the style of clothes I want the boys and my nieces to wear are expensive.

GAP, Boden, Fatface, MiniMode have lots of age appropriate and lovely clothing, but it is often three times more expensive if not more than, George, Tesco and Primark.  This is the first year in four that I have been able to find good value plain tops in Marks and Spencer for the boys.  I can not be the only mum who is facing this dilemma.

I think that sadly it is a symptom of today's shock media and also the fact that parenting has changed dramatically since I was younger.  I didn't even get my ears pierced until I was 13.

So what can I do to change or affect this, well it has made me very aware of my responsibility as a mother of two boys to do my job correctly and raise my boys to respect woman and girls.  To teach them that sex is not a cheap object to take from someone just because you can.  To help them put a real value on girls.

I hope that the fact that MadDad truly respects me that they have a good role model.


 

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